Showing Emotion: The Gift and The Curse
One of the more scrutinized aspects of being a man is how you deal with
emotion. If you're bothered by something you have to deal with it
internally because once you say what you feel you'll be look at as weak.
It's a constant battle as to whether you want to open your mouth and
speak your mind or just hold it in. Sometimes the consequences of doing
either can be a bit much too handle. Everyone deserves the right to speak their mind and sometimes people tend to forget this. I feel it's better to say what's on your mind than to hold it in because once you do that an explosion is bound to happen.
In today's world men are often criticize for even showing the smallest bit of emotion when it comes to certain things. People tend to forget that we are all human we all feel pain and hurt. How people deal with their emotions is entirely up to them but you should at least allow them to be heard. Ladies sometimes you have to ehhh.....you know act like you pee when you sit down for once. The gift of showing emotion is of course that you're willing to share how you feel about something but the curse is how that can be received by whoever you express yourself to.
You don't want a man to just start yelling at you out of nowhere but what do you think will happen if he keeps stuff in? I always found it weird when certain women would get mad if I didn't say how I felt but when I did it turned into "you're overreacting". Let that man say what he has to say, I feel sometimes ladies get so caught up in being so headstrong that they tend to forget how to be gentle loving souls. Letting a man express himself every once in a while will help in the long run especially since it doesn't happen often. Don't complain when he does express himself then look like this when he doesn't..........
In today's world men are often criticize for even showing the smallest bit of emotion when it comes to certain things. People tend to forget that we are all human we all feel pain and hurt. How people deal with their emotions is entirely up to them but you should at least allow them to be heard. Ladies sometimes you have to ehhh.....you know act like you pee when you sit down for once. The gift of showing emotion is of course that you're willing to share how you feel about something but the curse is how that can be received by whoever you express yourself to.
You don't want a man to just start yelling at you out of nowhere but what do you think will happen if he keeps stuff in? I always found it weird when certain women would get mad if I didn't say how I felt but when I did it turned into "you're overreacting". Let that man say what he has to say, I feel sometimes ladies get so caught up in being so headstrong that they tend to forget how to be gentle loving souls. Letting a man express himself every once in a while will help in the long run especially since it doesn't happen often. Don't complain when he does express himself then look like this when he doesn't..........
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